Workplace Favoritism
Rahul notices that a colleague keeps getting the best projects and praise regardless of performance, and talks to a trusted mentor about how to handle it.
Key words and phrases
Useful sentences
- Ask Why do you seem so frustrated today?
- Answer I feel like there's real favoritism in how projects are assigned.
- Ask What makes you say that?
- Answer One colleague always gets preferential treatment despite average results.
- Ask Do you feel overlooked for opportunities?
- Answer Yes, and I want the process to be more merit-based.
- Ask Is it only about one person, or a wider pattern?
- Answer It seems like only the manager's inner circle gets good opportunities.
- Ask What would you like to see change?
- Answer I'd like decisions to be based on objective criteria.
- Ask Have you spoken up about your own contributions?
- Answer Not enough — I need to advocate for myself more.
- Ask How can you show your contributions clearly?
- Answer I've started to document my work more carefully.
- Ask Should you bring this up with your manager?
- Answer Yes, but I'll raise it tactfully, not as a complaint.
- Ask What kind of change are you hoping for?
- Answer I want sustainable change, not just a temporary fix.
- Ask Do you think this is intentional bias?
- Answer It might just be unconscious bias, honestly.
Dialogue
RahulCan I get your advice on something that's been bothering me at work?
MentorOf course. What's going on?
RahulI feel there's favoritism — one colleague always gets the best projects.
MentorThat's frustrating. Have you documented your own contributions?
RahulNot really — I assumed good work would just be noticed.
MentorIt helps to advocate for yourself and increase your visibility.
RahulThat makes sense. Should I raise it with my manager directly?
MentorYes, but raise it tactfully — focus on wanting a transparent process.
RahulThat's good advice. I'll prepare my track record before the conversation.
MentorThat's exactly the right approach — good luck.
Common mistakes
- Saying "my boss is favoritism" instead of "my boss shows favoritism."
- Saying "I am overlooked" without context instead of "I feel overlooked for this opportunity."
- Saying "give me equal opportunity" bluntly instead of "I'd like an equal opportunity to contribute."
- Saying "document my works" instead of "document my work."
- Saying "raise it tactful" instead of "raise it tactfully."
- Saying "he is in inner circle" instead of "he is in the inner circle."
Quick quiz
1. What does "favoritism" mean?
2. What does "merit-based" mean?
3. What is an "inner circle"?
4. What does "advocate for yourself" mean?
5. What is "unconscious bias"?
6. Complete: "He wanted ___ change, not just a temporary fix."
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